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I’m the master of indecision and it’s a horrible trait. I deliberate over the most meaningless options and of course get torn up about slightly more important decisions. I have as much difficulty deciding between two options as an infinite of them.
Please help and share your decision making tips?
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teslawings answered:
Write them down. Options A, B, C with a flow chart style of pros/cons. Sometimes visuals make decision making easier.
uniquelythesame answered:
when in doubt, go with your first thought
nolagrrlnyc said:
set a time limit to make the choice and realize that it’s OK to make some mistakes, that’s how we learn; over time you’ll build up more confidence about your ability to make decisions
caiteh answered:
flip a coin
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liondrool said:
Usually I think of what the will benefit me more or which would stay away from further consequences in the future. Don’t over think things though unless you have that much time to waste.
yellowcrayon answered:
SO MUCH SYMPATHIE my friend asks me to give each choice a number and then she will choose one randomly for me. works for small decissions :)
clairlovesdean answered:
wait. breathe. you are probably just slower to making decisions
truthandbone answered:
instinct!
seppin said:
it’s okay to make mistakes. if you quibble too much you miss out on life, so pick a path and follow it through. unless you’re in a crime ring or something, most decisions are not life-or-death. you’ll be okay.
defy-gravity answered:
Some people say that if you flip a coin to make a decision, when the coin’s in the air you know what you really want. Have not tried this tho
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